What's in a Name?

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Hi, all--

If you've read the October issue of Spry, you undoubtedly saw a story about Courtney Bugler, who was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 29 and now, at age 31, is pregnant and living an even bigger and better life. In my editor's note, I told you that I thought the word "survivor" didn't capture the true spirit of women (and men) like Courtney, who seem to have taken a cancer diagnosis as a "life sentence," rather than a death sentence. I asked if any readers had ideas for a word to replace survivor--I thought I'd share some of your suggestions:

From Edwin, Brooklyn, NY: How about "Can-Openers"? You see, there is the word "can" in cancer, and having the disease and overcoming it can "open" new doors in a woman's life.

From Melodie:  I would say that the term "Overcomer"--one who overcomes all obstacles--is more effective than just "survivor."

From Pat, Granite Falls, MN:  How about "Hero"? These ladies fight the battle of a lifetime and win. They are heroes and inspirations not only to their families but to anyone and everyone they come in contact with.

From Cynthia: How about calling them "Conquerors"? 

From Barb: I love nicknames, and I think "Juvey" is a groovy name--it is short for rejuvenation. It has a little bounce to it and these people certainly have a bounce to them. God bless them.

From Joani: "Empowered." It has a wonderful sound and implication to it.

Love all of these suggestions! While I am not a Cancer Conqueror myself, my mom is, as was my grandmother before her ... and my mother in law. My dad, right now, is going through prostate cancer treatment and I hope he will join their ranks soon.

I was thinking "CAN-queror" could be interesting ... a combination of Cancer and Conqueror ... plus the word CAN, a positive, encouraging word for all of us.

Thanks again to all you who emailed suggestions--I would love to hear from others! 

Lisa D

lisa@spryliving.com